You want to live a life with more meaning or passion but feel "stuck" on how to shift into it 

You’re great at attracting men you don’t want or who don't treat you the way you deserve.

You settle for men who aren’t giving you the love you want because you think there might not be a better option out there.

You allow men to take what they want, without getting what you want (or even asking for it!)

You spend too much time (talking, texting, going on dates) with the men who aren’t the right fit, because you don’t want to be alone or feel like you owe it to them.

You seem to be dating the same disappointing guy over and over again (with a different name).

Sometimes you feel like giving up on the dream life and relationship you really want.

You've had BIG breakthroughs in Mastery of Connection but are unsure HOW to use them to attract the life and love you want quickly

You can get "in your head" and over-analyze everything a guy you're seeing does (or doesn't do)

You struggle to get over past heartbreak, and can sometimes push potentially good guys away because you’re scared of getting hurt again

You regularly show up with too much masculine energy in dating and relationship... and have a hard time lowering your walls for men

You go into dates or relationships expecting it to go poorly, because that's what usually happens (up until now!)

You sometimes feel you’re not "enough": not skinny enough, not smart enough, not young enough, not witty/charming enough, etc

You feel the men you really want aren't attracted to you or don't want to date you seriously 

You don't know how to harness the power of masculine/feminine energetic polarity to create irresistible attraction with men and everything else you desire.

You aren't clear on what you really need to be truly fulfilled in a relationship with men or how to transition from dating into a more serious commitment.

You're "showing up" as a doormat in the world without realizing it, and tolerating treatment that is lowering your value to men and others.

You have resistance around initiating contact with men because of a fear it will push them away or turn them off (if it's done right it actually lights them up!)

You haven't fully embraced your flipped beliefs of the love and life you're so deeply worthy of or figured out how to embody them in the world powerfully.

You don't know how to use the power of touch and nonverbal communication to create a deep, polarized connection with men.

You've disconnected from the powerful, creative force of your natural ways of being.

I would regularly give my heart to wounded, emotionally-unavailable women because I wanted to "fix them" to validate myself... needless to say, I got my heart broken often and hard.

I placed my full value and identity as a man in my dysfunctional relationships and poor career decisions.

In dating, I would regularly sabotage potentially good relationships that I didn't actually feel worthy of.

I spent 10 years chasing "success" and getting into a quarter-million dollars of debt with careers as an attorney and restaurant owner that I deeply disliked.

It wasn't until I nearly lost my life from drug use (medicating my personal pain) that I committed to inner work and personal development to learn WHY I was so unhappy... and hopefully discover something deeper to strive for with my life.

One powerful step at a time, I learned the processes and tools necessary to heal and liberate myself from limitations I had created for myself - and it worked!

The pain and fear receded, and I realized I had a profound purpose to serve in this world - to share this magic with as many humans as I possibly can!

I met and married my dream woman - Ashley. She is everything I ever wanted in my wife and SO much more, our love continues to deepen effortlessly, and we are having a blast building a truly beautiful life together. I am so blessed to have her by my side.  

My dating life before Ashley became fun and expansive, and I was able to connect with emotionally healthy, high-value women in a way that helped me grow and prepare for the relationship I truly desired. 

I've been blessed to connect with millions of people worldwide sharing my insights on empowerment, connection, and relationship.

I've spoken live from stage to thousands of people nationwide about how to embrace power and possibility in their lives.

I've come into alignment with my deepest divinely-ordained purpose, and wake up every day excited to LIVE my best life.

I've worked with thousands of inspiring female clients in dozens of countries around the world.

My Mastery of Magnetism Method students are happy to share their experiences and transformations with you

(this is just a sample, there are dozens more!)

"It's been profound the difference this work has made in every aspect of my life - my attitude, confidence, my relationships. I'm so thankful!"

"Mastery of Connection and Mastery of Magnetism have allowed me to go deep into those areas of my own life and be able to expand and work on some of the barriers, blocks, that I was having in order to create exactly what I was worthy of and exactly what I desired.”

"Now my life and my goals, my dreams and my beliefs are limitless. My reach is unending. My finances have now increased, my business is expanding, my relationship is being conducted by me, which was never a consideration before. I am happier and more satisfied than I have ever been in my whole life… and I’m not even done with the course yet!"  

"Because of becoming so magnetic and drawing in people I never have before, I've attracted a man I love and adore completely!"

“This course was designed in a way that it can help every single type of woman. No matter who you are, if you need help in your connections or your relationships, this course will help you. You'll get so much out of it.”

"Mat's course curriculum really helped me find the inner beauty of who I am to bring in the relationship I truly desired. And your fellow Magnettes will become lifelong friends."

"The personal connection I made with Mat and the other wonderful ladies in this group is what made it work for me better than anything else."

"I have done a lot of work on myself over a number of years, and I think what I've enjoyed most about this course is how fast I have made so many changes, just so many great moments in a really short space of time. I know that I can go forward and create a healthy relationship now.”

"I appreciate so much more what I have to give to others in relationship and I'm so much freer in my ability to connect with people in my life!"

“Mat has taken everything I’ve read in the past ten years of being single and put it in one course. The tribe has been amazing, everyone has been so supportive and willing to assist."

“This class is very different from any others, more powerful and more emotional. For the first time it really motivated me to take action, and I began to change things in my life, which I never have done before with other classes. I learned also a lot about my real personality, my needs, my wishes, my goals, my fears, and how to create a freeing vision. I discovered, really, who I am, what I am enjoying in life, where I want to go, what I want to achieve in the future."

INTRODUCING

The Mastery of Magnetism Method is a comprehensive, 12-month love and relationship course process - including 2 signature courses - Mastery of Connection and Mastery of Magnetism - and a year of live group coaching and community support - designed to transform the way you connect with yourself and others from the inside out and make you irresistible to the life and love you crave forever.

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Mastery of Connection lays the foundation for deep love by helping you understand and transform the way you connect with yourself and others from the inside out.

Get clear on where you are using structured self-evaluation, then begin healing your wounds and transforming your life and relationships by building a new belief system using the powerful BETDAR framework. Your life will never be the same. 

Uncover the true ways you communicate and connect with yourself and other people by identifying and harnessing the power of your unique personality type and attachment style, so you can recognize and shift any patterns of relationship that aren't serving you and create fulfilling, healthy bonds with others.  

Identify your core values and craft inspiring visions for every area of your life that will guide you like a North Star on the journey to the love and life you're worthy of. 

Learn how to craft a powerful, inspiring "Dream Day" to get you energetically primed to manifest exactly what you want in your life and relationships.

Construct a Vision Ladder that will help you move towards your vision every day in a structured, efficient way.

Establish a potent morning practice and other daily habits that put the pursuit of your vision on "autopilot" so you move towards the life of your dreams quickly and easily.

Mastery of Magnetism makes you irresistible to the life and love you want by helping you activate and harness your inner attractive feminine energy.

Discover what it means to be in alignment and to create polarity using masculine and feminine energy, the two fundamental principles of magnetism. 

Learn how you can use polarity to become a magnetic presence in life and dating so you can attract a wide spectrum of men and only date those you feel true alignment with!

Unlock how to be a conductor of the heart and guide a man to treat you exactly the way you desire in online chats or social situations. 

How to make your dating profile a powerful, polarizing magnetic feminine invitation to filter out time-waster guys and attract ideal ones.

How to have magnetic conversations on a first date that make him want more.

How to master nonverbal communication, including eye contact, body language, and subtle touch, so you become irresistible to men you desire without saying a word.

How to keep passion and connection burning strong in dating and relationship no matter how long you've been together.

How to master magnetic dating principles that help you show up in an activating, irresistible way to men you want to get to know you better.

How to transition from dating to relationship in a seamless, playful, and exciting way with a man.

What men LOVE and what really turns them on, so you can know just how to act with them to light them up!

What men DON'T LIKE and their absolute dealbreakers and how to avoid the common mistakes so many women make!

How to evoke a man's masculine energy in a powerful, inviting way that empowers them to rise to meet your needs.

How to balance your need for emotional intimacy with a man's desire for physical intimacy in a way where everyone ends up fulfilled and happy with the progression of the relationship.

The truth about HOW men actually see you and what that means for you in your dating and relationships.

A dynamic supportive community with loving sisters around the world who are passionate about finding deep soulful love and living their best lives!

A safe space for you to do your deep work, share what's coming up and get individualized support and accountability from our coaching team + your sisters 

Weekly motivational, interactive Mondays with Mat Workshop every Monday at 7pm EST - get FIRED UP to take action and make magic happen in your life! 

The group coaching continues with insightful guidance on everything you need to do to become the best version of yourself!

Every module is packed with videos to listen to and learn from. Have your notebooks ready!

Mastery of Magnetism Method focuses on you putting these principles into practice in the world - get ready to live your vision, one practice at a time. 

You will have an amazing group of fellow women who are just like you, going through the same transformation together as a community! This level of collective support is priceless as you go through the process and makes it even more fun!

LIFETIME ACCESS TO MASTERY OF CONNECTION (VALUE $1997)

LIFETIME ACCESS TO MASTERY OF MAGNETISM (VALUE $1997)

FULL YEAR OF LIVE GROUP COACHING AND PRIVATE COMMUNITY SUPPORT ( VALUE $6000+)

FOR VIP STUDENTS ONLY - A FULL YEAR OF PERSONAL SMALL GROUP COACHING WITH MAT (VALUE $20000)

Limited to 15 Students - only 2 spots left!

Lifetime Access to Signature Programs:

• Mastery of Connection
• Mastery of Magnetism

One Full Year of Deep-Dive Group Coaching 

• Twice-a-week Intensive Group Coaching w/ Luisa for first 2 months
• Weekly Deep-Dive Group Coaching w/ Luisa for next 10 months

One Year of Private Skool Community Support + Coaching-on-Demand from Luisa+Team

Everything to left in Group Study, PLUS:

One Year of Intimate Live Coaching w/ Mat (guaranteed 1:1 coaching on every call)

• Twice-a-week Intensive Small Group Coaching w/ Mat for first 2 months 
• Bi-weekly VIP Small Group Coaching w/ Mat for next 10 months
• Anytime Private Coaching from Mat in Skool community

One Year of Private Small Skool Community Support + Coaching-on-Demand from Mat

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Will this program help me beyond my relationships with men?

Absolutely. While many women join Mastery of Magnetism for help with dating and relationships, what they discover is something much bigger. As you do the work and begin embodying your value, feminine energy, and magnetic presence, it naturally transforms every area of life — from confidence and purpose to career, friendships, and how you show up in the world. Many students find their finances, boundaries, self-expression, and overall happiness expand just as powerfully as their love life.

What if I'm not currently dating?

That's actually one of the best times to do this work. Mastery of Magnetism Method starts with you — your energy, your confidence, your beliefs, and how you show up in the world. Women who come in before they're actively dating often see the fastest results because they're building their magnetic foundation without the distraction or pressure of a specific guy. When you do start dating, you'll be doing it from a completely different place — grounded in your worth, clear on what you want, and naturally drawing in the right men instead of chasing the wrong ones.

I already completed Mastery of Connection — why do I need this?

Mastery of Connection gave you the foundation: clarity, self-awareness, and a powerful new belief system. Mastery of Magnetism Method is where you take all of that inner work and put it into action in the real world — in dating, in relationships, and in how you show up magnetically in every area of your life. Plus, you now get a full year of live coaching and community support to guide you through the process. Think of MOC as building the engine — MOMM is learning to drive it fast and powerfully.

Do I need to finish Mastery of Connection before starting this program?

No. Mastery of Magnetism is designed to build naturally on the breakthroughs you've already begun in Mastery of Connection, and many students move through both programs together. You can start Magnetism right away while continuing to integrate the earlier work.

What if I've already done a lot of personal development?

You're not alone — many of our students come in with years of personal development behind them. What makes this process different is that it doesn't just teach concepts — it helps you embody them in real life through coaching, community support, and practical integration. Even women who have done years of inner work often experience breakthroughs here because the process combines emotional healing, feminine embodiment, and real-world application.

What makes Mastery of Magnetism different from other relationship programs?

Most programs give you advice or tactics and send you on your way. Mastery of Magnetism Method is a 12-month guided transformation — two full courses that build on each other, live weekly coaching, and a community of women doing the work alongside you. It's not just what you learn — it's the support system and coaching environment that helps you actually live it.

What's the difference between Group Study and VIP?

Group Study gives you lifetime access to both signature courses — Mastery of Connection and Mastery of Magnetism — plus a full year of live group coaching with Luisa and private community support. It's a powerful, deeply supportive experience. 

VIP includes everything in Group Study plus a full year of intimate, small-group coaching directly with Mat — limited to just 15 women. That means guaranteed personal attention on every call, twice-a-week intensive sessions with Mat for the first 2 months, bi-weekly VIP coaching for the rest of the year, and anytime private coaching from Mat inside your VIP community. If you want the deepest transformation in the fastest time with the most personalized support, VIP is the way to go.

Is VIP worth the investment?

If you're someone who thrives with personal attention, accountability, and direct access to your coach, VIP is a game-changer. You'll be in a small, intimate group of no more than 15 women, which means Mat gets to know your specific situation and can guide you through your unique blocks and breakthroughs in real time. Many VIP students say the personal coaching dramatically accelerated their results — and the private VIP community becomes a tight-knit circle of women doing the deepest work together. Spots are limited for a reason — this level of access is rare.

What is the time commitment?

This program is designed to fit into your real life, not take it over. There are 50+ video trainings you can watch at your own pace so you can work through the curriculum in a way that works best for you. Beyond that, you'll have weekly group coaching and an active community where you can receive support, ask questions, and bring real-life situations into the conversation throughout the year.

When does Mastery of Magnetism Method begin?

Immediately. The moment you enroll, you’ll receive instant access to the full curriculum inside Skool so you can begin right away (we do suggest that you stay focused on the MOC process until that course ends though!). Most students start by continuing the momentum from Mastery of Connection and moving directly into the Magnetism modules and group coaching.

Is there a payment plan available?

Yes! It's important to us that this program is accessible, so you can either pay in full and save or choose a monthly payment plan. Financing options through Klarna, Afterpay, and PayPal may also be available depending on your location — you'll see the options available to you during checkout.

How long will I have access to the course?

You will have lifetime access to both Mastery of Connection and Mastery of Magnetism curriculum, including any future updates. Your coaching and community access lasts for one full year from the time you enroll, and renewal options will be available at the end of the year if you'd like to continue.

Do you offer refunds or guarantees?

Yes! We offer a 30-day no-questions-asked refund period after purchase. We're confident that once you begin the work and experience the community and coaching environment, you'll quickly see why so many women say this process changes their lives.

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